I have a number of friends (and a family member) who have
dogs who are nearing the end of their days. I’m noting and processing the
events and feelings they are experiencing – and hoping it is several years
before I’m in a similar situation (my heart dog, Otto, will be 12 years old in
My sister and her husband have a really old Schnauzer-mix
named Beau. He might even be a real Schnauzer. He’s so old, it’s hard to tell! They
took in Beau when a friend in distress couldn’t keep him. The friend had gotten
Beau as a puppy when her son was 10 years old, and that son is in his late
twenties now, so… Beau is old. He has limited vision, limited hearing, has had
several strokes and can’t walk a straight line, and is growing increasingly
incontinent. On his bad days, it seems almost cruel that he is being kept
alive. He may stagger or not be able to get up, he acts like he doesn’t know
where he is and is anxious, and he may just suddenly completely empty his
bladder on the carpet while standing still, seemingly unaware he is doing so.
But on his good days, he runs up the hall with the rest of
his housemates, eats with gusto, goes outside through the dog door and potties without
assistance or a reminder to do so, and enjoys his time on the sofa and in bed
with his human and canine housemates. So they are very much afraid that if they
call the vet to make a euthanasia appointment on one of his bad days, and he’s
having a good day on the day of the appointment, the vet may decline to
euthanize, or the staff may make them feel like creeps! In fact, they feel sort
of pre-emptively guilty about even just talking about “Beau’s time.” My sister
and brother-in-law love Beau and want him to have a good end. But when is the
Chaco and Lena
There is Chaco, one of my former foster dogs. She’s younger
than Otto, but has two failing knees and severe arthritis, and her owner lacks
the health insurance or budget to pay for two knee surgeries. Her declining
mobility has contributed, it seems, to weight gain, which compounds her problems.
Another friend is in a similar position with Lena, Otto’s
very first playmate and friend. She has had one ACL surgically repaired, and
underwent “conservative management” when the second one tore; her veterinarian
says her hips, too, are quite dysplastic, and would have benefitted from
surgery. Both hips and both knees, too? Her very devoted owner, my friend,
could not have possibly paid for four surgeries – nor could she have gotten or
afforded insurance after the first knee injury and x-rays showed the hip
problems. Lena is maintained on daily pain medication and various joint
supplements, and my friend takes her for frequent drives to places where she
can take short, gentle walks. My friend has also been shopping for some sort of
wagon or cart she could use to take the 70-pound dog on walks, so she at least
can enjoy the changing scenery and odors. Lena, like Chaco, is getting fairly
crippled, but is in otherwise good health and appetite. How long can my friends
maintain them in this condition?
How to know when to let them go
Super dedicated owners can provide hospice care for dogs, if they are physically and emotionally able and have an appropriate home and time to do so. We ran a great article about this in 2010; it holds up well today. But not everyone has a schedule and home that would permit, as just one example, helping a large non-ambulatory dog outside to potty several times a day.
Not unrelated: Between all my dog-loving friends, I am aware
of exactly ONE DOG who died peacefully in his sleep.
I just went looking; here are some links for information on
how to know when “the time” is right for euthanasia:
When it is getting close to time to make an appointment for euthanasia, we have some other helpful articles to read. This one is by a long-time contributor to WDJ, trainer Lisa Rodier.
Also, trainer Jill Breitner’s article on what to ask before making an appointment for euthanasia and the companion piece to that article by Dr. Sally J. Foote are excellent sources of information about what you should know in advance.